Blogs & Musings

What is attachment theory and what does it reveal about us?A universal need to bond and belongAn overview of attachment theoryTwo primary attachment statessecure-based attachment statesFear-based attachment statesOur attachment states aren’t fixedMapping your...

What is erotic intelligence?Your passion wants to guide youErotic energy as a healing forceSignals that your erotic intelligence is turned on:Accessing your erotic intelligenceWhat activates erotic energy?What dims down erotic energy?STRESSJUDGMENT, CRITICISM, AND...

Sexuality as a gateway to embodied power1. PHYSIOLOGICAL AND BIOLOGICAL MARKERS2. PLEASURE 3. THE WILD CARD OF MYSTERY4. SEEKING TO REPEAT & REPAIR MISSING EXPERIENCESOUR FIVE DEVELOPMENTAL NEEDS ARE:What are missing experiences?How do missing experiences impact...

I want to share my yearnings with you...What do you yearn for?Expanding often means saying goodbye and letting go...Shedding skins: the process of evolutionary birth, death, and rebirthGoodbye, and a deep bow of gratitude to you, Your Erotic Nature.Who are the people...

My recent let go, surrender and innovative processMy entrepreneurial cycle of risk taking, surrender and creative clarity Have you ever had the feeling of free falling into the unknown? Of being inextricably called towards something or someone, despite your mind...

Attachment theory overviewThe influence of missed experiences in adult intimacy and relationshipsApplying attachment theory to relationships, sex and intimacyQuestions to contemplate:What does attachment theory have to do with sexuality?Our social engagement...

You asked:I often feel used by the women I date. My Mom treated me more like her dog on a leash than her cherished son. I felt bullied by my mom and Sister. their constant criticism made me question love and my own goodness. As an Adult, I attract women who mirror...

Self-awareness and belief mapsBoundary-setting is a form of self-careWhat’s the difference between a boundary and a wall?Wall & Boundary InquiryQuestions to contemplate:Integrating your need for autonomy with your need for connection1. Boundary-setting...

You asked:Do you believe, in order to experience fully our true erotic nature, to completely embody our being, that we need to have a partner who feels and believes the same as we do?What IF our partner doesn’t share our intentions, isn’t open or willing, or has...